We are just over a month into a fresh new year and I’m finally sitting down to write about my word for the year. It’s a practice that I first learned about from Christine Kane. Her suggestion of simply choosing a personal word as the touchstone for one’s year, instead of writing down a list of New Year’s resolutions, which like most people, I likely wouldn’t keep longer than a couple of weeks, immediately resonated with me.
I thought to myself, “Oh I want to do that!”
And then because I tucked away this thought to come back to later I lost track of it until this year. Occasionally a worthy idea needs time to take root.
Have you notice how it becomes much more difficult to ignore a good idea when it keeps popping in over and over again to say, “Hi! Remember me!” This is exactly what happened this year.
After presenting itself multiple times in different places over several days I decided the universe was telling me to pay attention.
Several places where I frequent the buzz around picking a word was really hopping. I was eager to hop in and share my word too. But I had a small problem. I just couldn’t seem to settle on a word.
And I was seeing a lot of great words being shared by others and I still couldn’t find one that seemed to fit me. There were several really nifty words chosen by others I would have loved to have adopted for myself. But I didn’t get that toe curling zing when I’d try them on.
Finally one morning, after several weeks of this frustrating indecision, I found myself standing in front of the bathroom mirror talking to myself. I said, “Enough Already! Why can’t you just choose a word? Just pick a word! Just Choose! You don’t have to live with the word all year long if you don’t want to.”
And on the heels of this rant with myself my word suddenly revealed herself. Choose. Just Choose. My word for this year is choose.
” The optimist lives on the peninsula of infinite possibilities; The pessimist is stranded on the island of perpetual indecision.” ~William Arthur Ward